The house
The reading room
take a seat
Every house has a room where nobody is in a hurry. This one holds the journal, the guides and the glossary: what people want and rarely say, how to say it, and the words for it.
From the journal
Sexless marriage: what it means and what people do about it
A sexless marriage is one in which the couple has little or no sex over a long stretch, and at least one of them minds. It is common, it usually arrives gradually, and it says more about tiredness, resentment, health or habit than about love. Couples who change it almost always start by talking about it plainly, often with a counselor in the room.
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Journal
Longer pieces about desire, loneliness and long relationships.
Journal
Sexual fantasies: the common ones and what they tell you
A sexual fantasy is an imagined scene that arouses you, and nearly every adult has them. The common themes are few: novelty, more than one partner, power given or taken, being intensely wanted, and romance. A fantasy tells you what a feeling looks like in your imagination. It is not a plan, a prediction or a verdict on your character.
Journal
Married but lonely
Being married but lonely means sharing a home and a life with someone and still feeling unknown to them. It is common, and it usually comes from years of talking about logistics instead of each other, not from a lack of love. It tends to ease when one person says so plainly and both begin paying small, regular attention again; a couples counselor helps when that conversation will not hold.
Journal
Lonely tonight: what helps in the next hour
If you are lonely tonight, the things that help within an hour are simple: eat something, change the light and the room, hear a human voice, and put yourself near other people even if you do not talk to them. Loneliness is loudest late in the evening and usually smaller by morning. If it comes with thoughts of harming yourself, call or text 988 in the United States, or your local crisis line.
Journal
How to talk to a woman without a script
To talk to a woman without a script, treat it as a conversation with a person, not a performance for an audience. Open with something true about the situation you are both in, ask a real question, listen to the answer and offer something of yourself in return. Pay attention to whether she wants to keep talking, and leave gracefully if she does not.
Guides
How to start, what to say, what to agree on first.
Guide
Roleplay ideas for couples and for chat
The best roleplay ideas are simple: two adult roles, one place, and one thing each person wants. Strangers at a hotel bar, a private show for one guest or a strict studio appointment all work because the roles are clear in a single sentence. Agree on limits and a safeword first, then start with one line in character.
Guide
How to sext: a calm guide for adults
To sext well, ask first, start milder than you think you need to, and be specific about one thing you want or remember. Good sexting runs on anticipation and timing, not on blunt words. Agree beforehand on what is welcome, what is not, and a word that means stop.
Guide
Sexting examples that are suggestive, not crude
Good sexting examples are suggestive rather than crude: they name a memory, a plan or a small instruction and leave the rest unsaid. A line such as "I have been thinking about your hands all day" does more than any blunt word. Use the examples below as patterns, and change the details so they could only be about one person.
Guide
How to talk dirty without feeling silly
To talk dirty without feeling silly, use your own voice and say true things: what you notice, what you like and what you want next. Start quietly, with one sentence, and build from the reaction you get. Ask beforehand which words your partner enjoys and which they never want to hear.
Kink glossary
The types of kinks from A to Z, each explained without judgment.
What is aftercare?
Aftercare is the time partners take after intense play to come back down together: warmth, water, reassurance and talk. It is part of the scene, not an optional extra.
What is a brat?
A brat is a submissive who enjoys playful resistance: teasing, talking back and breaking small rules to provoke a reaction. The defiance is part of the game, not a refusal of it.
What is femdom?
Femdom is short for female domination: a dynamic in which a woman takes the leading role and her partner willingly follows. It ranges from gentle guidance to strict, formal control.
What is findom?
Findom, short for financial domination, is a dynamic in which a consenting adult gives money or gifts to a dominant, and the giving itself is the act of submission. No other service needs to be involved.
What is GFE?
GFE stands for girlfriend experience: paid time with a companion that includes the warmth of a relationship, such as conversation, affection and attention. The closeness matters as much as anything physical.
What is a hotwife?
A hotwife is a married or committed woman who has encounters with other people with her partner's knowledge and encouragement. It is a form of consensual non-monogamy in which her freedom is something the couple enjoys together.
- What is JOI?
- What is a mommy dom?
- What is pegging?
- What is SPH?
- What is BDSM?
- What do dom and sub mean?
- What is a switch?
- What is a safeword?
- What is negotiation in BDSM?
- What is bondage?
- What is shibari?
- What is erotic spanking?
- What is erotic humiliation?
- What is a praise kink?
- What is a foot fetish?
- What is the giantess fantasy?
- What does BBW mean?
- What is a cougar?
- What is erotic roleplay?
- What is dirty talk?
Kinds of chat
The same subjects, with the companions who suit them.
Femdom chat
Femdom chat is a conversation in which a woman leads and the other person follows, by agreement and for the pleasure of both. On Rendezvoir it is time with an AI companion who takes the lead, booked for a fixed length and paid once.
BDSM chat
BDSM chat is a conversation about power, restraint and sensation between adults who have agreed on roles and limits. On Rendezvoir it is a booked visit with an AI companion, for a fixed time and a single payment.
Roleplay chat
Roleplay chat is a conversation in which both sides take on characters and play out a scene together in writing. On Rendezvoir the other part is an AI companion with her own character and setting, booked for a fixed time and paid once.
Fantasy chat
Fantasy chat is a conversation in which you play out a scenario that lives in the imagination and may never happen in real life. On Rendezvoir you share it with an AI companion built around one such fantasy, booked for a fixed time and paid once.
Flirt chat
Flirt chat is light, playful conversation with a spark in it, where the pleasure lies in the back and forth. On Rendezvoir you flirt with an AI companion who has her own character, booked for a fixed time and paid once.
Mommy chat
Mommy chat is a conversation with a warm, nurturing woman who looks after you and gently takes charge, a dynamic between two adults. On Rendezvoir it is a booked visit with an AI companion, for a fixed time and a single payment.
BBW chat
BBW chat is conversation with a big beautiful woman, a full-figured woman whose size is part of her appeal. On Rendezvoir it is a visit with a full-figured AI companion, booked for a fixed time and paid once.
AI girlfriend chat
AI girlfriend chat is conversation with an AI character who plays a romantic partner: attentive, familiar and interested in your day. On Rendezvoir you do not subscribe to her; you book a companion for a fixed time and pay once.
Mature chat
Mature chat is conversation with an older woman, usually forty or above, who brings experience, confidence and directness to it. On Rendezvoir it is a visit with a mature AI companion, booked for a fixed time and paid once.
Dirty talk chat
Dirty talk chat is erotic conversation in which desire is put into words, openly and without detours. On Rendezvoir it is a visit with an AI companion who is good with those words, booked for a fixed time and paid once.
Not sure what suits you?